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Workshop Systems Thinking Change Management @26th annual European Experiential Educators Conference in Olanda

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28 Aprile- 2 maggio 2022 – In uno scenario naturale, ho partecipato alla 26° conferenza Europea degli Educatori Esperienziali. Il format è quello di un barcamp in Open Space Technology dove il programma viene realizzato dai formatori che offrono le loro competenze per altri formatori.

In questa conferenza ho scelto di combinare 3 strumenti che uso come formatrice indoor e outdoor. Ho offerto un workshop esperienziale sul comportamento del pensatore sistemico. Ho aperto il workshop con le carte CCS di cui sono loro partner per l’Italia, per consentirli di conoscersi attraverso occhi diversi, ed usato lo stesso strumento in chiusura per darsi un feedback ed un consiglio per il futuro. Il cuore del workshop si è svolto con l’ausilio delle carte del comportamento del Pensatore Sistemico, sono oltre 16, e le carte descrivono i comportamenti che dimostra e dei consigli per attivarsi. Il gioco è stato quello di scegliere i comportamenti di cui già diamo testimonianza, i partecipanti divisi in gruppi di 4 hanno ascoltato le storie reciproche, e la riflessione è stata attorno a quello che hanno appreso e indirettamente l’esperienza di come crescere. Il risultato è stato davvero eccitante ed emozionante, con tanto di lacrime emozionali. Si parla spesso del pensiero sistemico, ma non è ovvio esibirlo. Per scoprire quali sono, eccoli qua: https://ttsfilestore.blob.core.windows.net/ttsfiles/habits-single-page-2020.pdf

Ho partecipato a oltre 8 workshop di colleghi eccezionali, sperimentando metodologie conosciute e sconosciute, ci siamo arricchiti reciprocatamento condividendo sapere e conoscenze. Eravamo tutti provenienti da paesi diversi, 80 educatori da più di 12 paesi europei, e anche una persona dal Pakistan/USA.

La sede è stata quella di Sonnewende (https://zonnewende.nl/, https://goo.gl/maps/VsFH9zZBdJJweisJA, ) vicino ad Einhoven, con possibilità di tenere i nostri workshop indoor o outdoor, ed era tutto residenziale per 3 giorni. Veramente un clima di pace, professionalità e divertimento, così come la formazione esperienziale sa essere. L‘anno prossimo saremo in Polonia!


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Resolving Conflict – Success story using Communication Compatibility Vision Cards

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Together with a group of friends, we gather once a month to share our personal experiences in relation to a theme. Our last gathering was in the peaceful setting of the Casentino Valley in Italy, where, surrounded by the powerful green of thousands of chestnut trees, we agreed to experience the theme “how do we reach important decisions in life”.

The theme was brought to us by Simon, a Benin refugee who escaped 3 years ago from his homeland, leaving behind his wife and three children, in the hope to build the foundations for a better life. Once settled in Italy, he could have then proceeded with the “family reunification”. During these last 3 years in Italy, Simon managed to learn Italian, find a job, integrate into society, as well as create a living for his whole family. He was ready to reunite the family, but the Italian bureaucracy was taking ages.

While waiting for this paperwork, and for the eighth year in a row, Simon tried applying to the USA Green card lottery, with no luck until this year, when his wife tried on his behalf. His wife was the one who received the official USA communication that they won the lottery! His wife was so excited, that she accepted the nomination and chose New York without consulting with her husband, who meanwhile had also received the paperwork from the Italian government. Problems of mistrust and miscommunication started, the couple started to crack, mainly because these life decisions are to be taken together as a family, not alone.

With all these emotions in motion before our friendly gathering, it was important for Simon, to use our gathering to get us all to share our personal experiences, and probably also to get some clearance on his feelings and support for his final decision: to join his family in USA and risk not succeeding after one year (green card coverage) or to push for his family’s relocation in Italy where his life is stable.

For our working session, we regrouped in groups of three to share our personal stories on decision-making, and we also had to prepare a sketch. The afternoon was remarkably interesting.

Despite our positive experience as a group, I could feel Simon needed further sharing and clearance. I asked Simon if he was happy to have a quiet moment for himself where I would share with him a playful yet serious game, the Ideal and current reality workshop” using the CCS image cards. He was incredibly happy to sit and to start imagining what is and what could be.

He shared one card at a time, sharing his interpretation and feelings. As he shared, his eyes brightened up. With the aid of the visuals (images) he was “seeing” the expression of a bright present.

Simon chose the first 5 cards representing his current reality, and then 5 cards representing his ideal reality. He shared one card at a time, sharing his interpretation and feelings. As he shared, his eyes brightened up. With the aid of the visuals (images) he was “seeing” the expression of a bright present. Soon after, he started sharing his ideal reality, and each image was becoming progressively real to him, he felt he was already touching his future!

He was not complete, he asked permission to move the cards around, which of course can be done. He decided to move the “ideal reality” images to the right of his “current reality”, all in a row. Taking his time to observe the chosen images, his energy level picked up, he was feeling lighter and relieved. His body language changed to a much more open posture and he smiled. He was accepting (with all mind, heart, and body) the choice his wife made on their behalf and he started projecting “their” life in New York as “one” family.

I indulged and asked him if he wished to go through the cards again and find an image which would represent an “enabling” card to make the ideal be reality. He chose a card that for him, represented “confidence”. He expanded and shared that he needed to have more self-confidence, as well as trust in this family decision, which was no longer his wife’s decision alone. By the end of our session together, all negative emotions had disappeared, he was ready for his ideal present. His heart was full of gratitude, and all bitterness towards the situation and his wife was removed. He was so thankful to the CCS methodology and cards, that he asked to buy the cards and use them to unveil his emotions and improve his communication in the future.

Simon did not feel alone anymore and was now clear on what needed to be done.

Note: Should you require further information and wish to purchase or receive training using the CCS Cards, please do contact me at elena@pianiprojects.com or +39 346 0846579. 

CCS has been widely used over the past 25 years and is an incredible tool for a variety of activities, from one to one coaching, to group facilitation and further. I can distribute CCS cards and deliver related workshops to you over Italy and Europe, in person, or online.

You can also visit CCS Corporation Australia website: https://ccs.cards/